In my first write up i started by saying that financial
misfortune is the worst thing that can happen to a person and concluded my
second write up by saying that “financial misfortune tear family apart.”
Today I am concentrating on the 5 major things that financial
misfortune must not turn a person to.
5 MAJOR THINGS THAT FINANCIAL MISFORTUNE T MUST NOT DO TO A
PERSON:
1
IT MUST NOT TURN YOU TO A DRUNKARD:- This
attitude is more common among men than among women, when some men are faced with serious financial misfortune
instead of telling their wife or family about it so that they can all think of
what to do to see that their family member do not suffer much as a result of the misfortune, what
their family will just observe is a negative change of attitude in the form of
the man coming home very late in the night drunk and in some cases they become
so violent after drinking themselves to a stupor that their wife and children
become afraid of living with them and in some cases their wife may move out of the house with the kids. This is what I call taking out your financial frustration
on the bottle and on your family.
2
IT MUST NOT LEAD TO A SITUATION THAT YOU DESERT
YOUR FAMILY:- Sometime if the person going through this kind of situation is
the bread winner of the family he or she may be tempted to dessert his or her family in the guise of going to another part of the country or even
outside the country to look for a better fortune. In some cases once they are
gone their family may not hear about them again and if they still have small
children all the financial burden of bringing up the children will become the
responsibility of only one person which may be too much for that person to
carry all alone.Even if the party who has financial problem in the family
can no longer help much financially his or her presence in the family will give
the family opportunity to decide on what to do to bring their financial situation under
control.
3
IT MUST NOT TURN YOU TO A PERSON THAT IS PERPETUAL DEPENDENT ON
OTHERS:-There is always people out there
who may render financial help and may be willing to render more according to
their capability but if I were you I will not want to remain in this level for
too long because the day their family needs conflict with your own they will
first attend to their own no matter how urgent your own may be, remember the
saying that “there is dignity in labor.”
4
IT MUST NOT LEAD TO A FOOLISH DEPLETION OF THE
FAMILY OR YOUR ASSETS:- Yes if you have an asset that you can sell to make money available, yes there is nothing wrong in selling
it, but it must be sold to create further financial wealth not to be fritter
away in unwise show off or in a drinking spree.
5
IT MUST NOT TURN YOU TO A CRIMINAL:- Misfortune
do happen in every man’s lifetime but how a person take it when it happen will
greatly determine whether the person will quickly come out of it and see its end or it
will see the end of the person. Criminal activity never pays anybody in the end it only
leads to regret and sometime leads to the untimely death of those that embrace
it.
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